Monday, March 29, 2010

The day before the medical team leaves

The picture above is of the doctors as they head out to the hospital after lunch. It's rather symbolic. The picture looks a little like how we'll feel when they're gone, walking out of our lives. We are going to miss them! We will be a little depressed when they leave tomorrow after lunch, but we'll get over it. We will still have a group of three women here who are ministering to the hospital staff and pastors in the area. It will be a challenge, but that's OK. That's why we're here. 

We made an appointment with Rich, the counselor, to counsel with us re: our own grief & losses over the last couple of years. We say "oh yes, we're fine" and yet, maybe not sometimes. Our losses seem so close to us for some strange reason down here - Warren, Renie, loss of the school, Annie, Chris' dad...  We were going to be involved in grief counseling to the Haitians, but this is how it might be instead. The two of us getting counseled ourselves. And so we got counseled tonight. What a blessing to sit there, the two of us, getting to share our hearts, our journey, our grief with someone from the outside so to speak. He gave us some good things to work on and shared some awesome insights from his own life to bless us with. The Body of Christ is an amazing thing. 

From Chris: As I burned CDs of photos for the doctors today, I listened to the Haitian women downstairs sing "Wonderful Savior, Jesus is Mine" and "Come Thou Fount - my personal fave - in Creole as they washed all our clothes by hand. Remember, Antiguan team members, how we would take the clothes to the laundromat before we got the washer for Ronnie and Janice? Well, these sweet Haitian women have no clue how their lives would change if they had a washer here!  Think of it, hand washing clothes for approx. 18 people. Unbelievable. Frankly, we've been hand washing most of ours i.e. underwear and shirts. Why add to their burden when we are certainly capable of it? One thing is certain- we are helping their economy by hiring them. Greg is trying to cross that barrier himself. HIRE THE HAITIANS TO DO THE WORK!!!! 

A little side note to the laundry situation - it's now night time and the laundry is done and ours didn't get done. Now that's going to be a problem! We hope it happens tomorrow! Especially Greg's work clothes!

From Chris, another baby orphan story. The guy in the white tee-shirt below, Tilom, had a sister who died after giving birth. That little one month old baby nephew showed up with an aunt. She needed food for him. What a dilemma. She also wanted him to go to the orphanage. We had only a can or two of formula and again, it's $10 a can and that's way more than they can afford. The orphanage really can't take anymore children because Haiti has put the stop on adoptions and if the orphanages take anymore children in, they have to raise them. It's so sad. Someone was sent out to buy a bottle for the baby and give him our one can of formula, but who knows what's going to happen to him? I get a little angry thinking about Angelina Jolie being a spokesperson for UNICEF and she can adopt all the babies she wants and yet we've heard that they are behind the push on the govt. to put the kibash on international adoptions. This country cannot support their orphaned children. Just a little rant. Pardon me.

Our thoughts are random tonight. Things will be slowing down for Chris with the larger group leaving and picking up for Greg as he tries to complete his projects. Our missionary doctor and his wife will get a couple of nights of R&R, one with the medical team. We are praying it will be an awesome time for them. They need it.
Greg and two of his worker buddies
Kids at the orphanage with their new balloons (yesterday)
These are the neighbor kids looking under our gate. They're always there.
More neighbor kids. Some of them are the witchdoctor's kids.


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8 comments:

  1. Sounds like you guys are doing alot of work and also getting worked on alot. Thats amazing. Keep it up and thank you! Love, -josh and Ellie

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  2. Greetings Shaws,
    Know that the Residence Life staff at Spring Arbor University is praying for you. God bless you and thanks for your service!
    Dan Vander Hill

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  3. I continue to post your blogs each day in the lunch room so the employees can keep informed with you guys. It is awesome to see them in there standing around to read each day. Know we continue to pray for you that God's work will be done in you and through you!

    Love,
    Darlene

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  4. We are praying every day at the Damaska household. Love those beautiful kids...even if they go to the bathroom in your lap. :)
    Peter.

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  5. Thanks for sharing what's happening not only through you but also IN you! Sometimes, the work God does in us far exceeds what we can contribute to His Kingdom work in the world. I am praying that you will be blessed in amazing and surprising ways as you continue to be available to what He asks of you.
    P.S. Good things happen when women sing hymns together! :)

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  6. Hey Chris, thanks for sharing your heart and those great pictures. The children are beautiful
    and I can almost hear the women singing the hymns in creole. Being in Haiti brings such a different perspective on life and tho very difficult I know it was a very life changing time for our family. I'm praying for you guys.
    Donna H

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  7. Dear Friends,
    What an intense, heart-rending time of ministry! I passed your blog site along to Tom (Dr. Dan's cousin) & Beth so they could also follow your days in Haiti. Does your e-mail work? I'm so glad for this new format for responding. I think I wrote you 3 fairly lengthy notes previously - none of which were succesfully sent. Continuing to pray - Teri

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  8. oh my. . .those little faces under the gate. . .every day, Chris. I can't get them out of my mind. I can't imagine ALL that the Lord is doing in your hearts and minds. (We should all be so blessed/challenged)!

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